Monday, November 5, 2012

A public yet private relationship.

"Learn to keep your private life, private or they will make your life their entertainment." - 

(IMGsource: http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/10/07/modern-etiquette-when-to-update-your-facebook-relationship-stat/)
I can never stand a couple cursing each other and after their fight they will act like nothing happened, or I can see relationship status on Facebook change every day and the story goes all over again. Aren't you tired of this same bullshit? Well I am. I know relationships aren't supposed to be perfect but please, think TWICE OR EVEN THRICE before you say things or make a decision because honestly a relationship that is too open for everyone to know is just a laugh. 

Some people are private but others have a habit to share every detail to everyone, I am somehow on the private side because my Mom taught me to be a private person in this world of Gossiping, well I post some of my fights with my boyfriend here on the internet and talk to my friends when something occurs in my relationship but most of the times I don't like my relationship to be an open book; some things are only to be shared as a couple. I love my friends and I value their opinions but in some situations I  keep things between me and my partner because sometimes their opinions affect the way I handle my own relationship and it is not a good thing. Relationship is called relationship because it only needs two persons. It doesn't need another person, because soon as you get someone else involved, things would get more complicated. 

If you're really having a problem and you want to talk to someone you can talk to your parents, because I am sure they've been there and they know what's the best solution for your problem or you can talk to God, keeping God as the center of the relationship can never go wrong. With all the forms of technology right now, its nice to keep some things private and your relationship more sacred. Leave that transparent life to the celebrities. 

So are you more of a private or public kind of person?
keep on smiling,xx
♥ Shahara

12 comments:

  1. KristenNovember 5, 2012 at 9:27 PM

    I seem to be a private person... sometimes. LOL

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    1. Shahara RaeNovember 5, 2012 at 10:48 PM

      That's fine I guess, a little mystery would be a thrill! Lol ;)

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  2. Natalie Da SilvaNovember 7, 2012 at 12:37 PM

    I totally agree with this blog post!! I would say I'm a private person - but people tell me alot of gossip where I'm from lool!!

    Lovin' the blog by the way :P

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    1. Shahara RaeNovember 8, 2012 at 5:17 AM

      Haha! Lol, thanks I love your blog also! Hope to hear from you again! <3 Take care and stay gorgeous!

      -Shahara

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  3. Jessica ChoyNovember 8, 2012 at 7:15 AM

    Nice post!! Nowadays its so easy to access other people's information, more people should definitely be aware of it :) Thank you for your sweet comment and following!! Definitely following you back! Looking forward to new posts x

    http://itsjessicachoy.blogspot.com/

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    1. Shahara RaeNovember 8, 2012 at 11:30 PM

      Yey! Glad that you liked my blog and for following back! Yes I have a lot of coming posts this week so wait for it! ;) I hope one of these days I can come up with a DIY project! Wish me luck, thank you again<3

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  4. SofieNovember 8, 2012 at 9:17 AM

    Love this, hehe!
    I really like your blog. Would you like to follow each other? Let me know!
    Kisses :)

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    1. Shahara RaeNovember 8, 2012 at 11:30 PM

      Thank you! That really means a lot to me, will check your blog right now! ;)

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  5. esohleeNovember 12, 2012 at 3:13 PM

    I am definitely a more private person and I also don't have the need to display my affection to my s/o through these social networks! Nor do I need to display if I were in a relationship, breaking up with someone or anything like that.

    Great post girl. I always wonder why people make everything so public these days and why we have the need to inform everybody about everything that's happening in our lives. Sometimes I think I am too old fashioned, but what's wrong with keep something private?

    - Sally
    www.esohlee.com

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    1. Shahara RaeNovember 13, 2012 at 12:23 AM

      Other people who are so public like a celebrity has this point of view that they don't care what other people say to them that's why they keep everything public, they somehow have the rights to be public but they should know when to stop because they'll never know; some people can use their own words against them, (do you get me?) haha!

      Anyway I am really glad you liked my new post! ;)

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  6. JenniferNovember 12, 2012 at 4:54 PM

    definitely more of a private person. Somethings just feel like they should be private, you know? It's not like you're dating him and his 500 friends..

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